Saturday Sharing! I am going to take a short break from my usual beauty
and fashion stuff; let’s talk about life which is more important. We had our
fair share of tuff days too. There will be people who will try to bring us
down with their cheap and dirty tactics, bad stabbing, double head sword and
what else? You name it I have faced all these before. I think the list will go on and on… Arghh! I am sick with these lame
and annoying ‘species’ so tell how do we get rid of them?
Negative mind will never give you a positive life |
Basically these ‘species’ are everywhere and
hard to get rid off them. They have nothing better to do, so they will gossip,
spread rumors and think of how to create stories to make others sad or cause
misunderstanding or fight. Their objective is to get attention and perhaps some pity self satisfaction. Can we sense their intention or anticipate their
next move? Eerr, sometimes yes, sometimes no, depends on our instincts or 6th
sense right.
So when you know it are you going to revenge? Hmm… if follow my
heart I want him / her to go through hell but that’s stupid right. I would advise
you don't waste your time. The best way is to ignore and stay away from
these ‘species’. Do not let them toxic your mind and take away your time from
doing productive stuff. Just ignore and move forward. When there is no
response from you they will feel bored and tired because their efforts has no impact on you.
Remember I have said this before negative mind will never give you a positive life. So let it go and
move on. Do not let them rob away your happiness because you don’t deserved sadness.
And please remember do not do it to others as well, never become these type of lame ‘species’. And please don't revenge because its waste of your time. The best way to get rid of toxic people is to ignore them because all they need is attention.
I know it’s easy to say but hard to do it, remember it can be done. I had my fair share of toxic people also but I don't fear because what ever they do will not have any impact on me. Life goes on, I always choose happiness because we can. You must know what you are doing and always look at a bigger picture. Sometimes we lose a bit now is alright but there are a lot more to gain in the future.
Oh yes, remember family always comes first because no matter what happen they are there for you. So don't take things for granted or neglect them. Remember my 2 cents advise, negative mind will never give you a positive life ya…
I have forgiven those who did bad things to me because I pity them, they have no life. I only load my brain will positive thoughts so that life can me more fulfilling and happy. Alright… hope that I am not too long winded. Till then tata I see you in my next post.
Oh yes, remember family always comes first because no matter what happen they are there for you. So don't take things for granted or neglect them. Remember my 2 cents advise, negative mind will never give you a positive life ya…
I have forgiven those who did bad things to me because I pity them, they have no life. I only load my brain will positive thoughts so that life can me more fulfilling and happy. Alright… hope that I am not too long winded. Till then tata I see you in my next post.
dear you, I also experienced the same thing many times. It was painful and took time to relieve...
ReplyDeleteMarionette, it takes time to let go but we can do it.
DeleteThanks for sharing. Better be positive everyday and cherish our family and friends.
ReplyDeleteHi Linda, true. Its better we have less friends, only those who sincere.
DeleteThanks for sharing. Better be positive everyday and cherish our family and friends.
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